After a year of working, I made my first investment of $10K into VTI. My […]
Ever wondered how did the term "FOMO" comes about? Being crippled by Fear of Missing Out causes you to not make practical decisions in a world of overwhelming choices.
FOMO describes the decimating anxiety when thinking other people are having better, more fulfilling, experiences than you are. It's a natural, biological response, but that doesn't make it feel any better. Alarmingly, it has become a cultural crisis.
Patrick McGinnis, creator of the term FOMO, has a solution to manage this anxiety.
- Learning to weigh the costs and benefits of your choices
- Prioritizing your decisions
- Listening to your gut are central to silencing FOMO and its lesser-known cousin, FOBO: Fear of a Better Option.
Here is the summary for Fear of Missing Out: Practical Decision Making in a World of Overwhelming Choice to help you ascertain and eliminate the parts of your life that are causing more anxiety than happiness.
Begin with an end in mind
- Know my priorities and commit fully to what I should be doing instead of what I could be doing with conviction
- Be on guard for triggers and distractions
- Focus on what truly matters and let go of everything else
- Sweat the big stuff only
- Categorise issues into high stake, low stake, no stake decisions
Manage FOMO
- Exercise judgement with facts based on data from multiple sources, not emotion or speculation, to expand my perspective
- Keep an open mind. Don't fall in love with whatever is giving me FOMO or presume a given outcome
- Know what matters. Set a criteria to determine if an opportunity meets my objective
- List down reasons why you want to do this
- What is the opportunity cost
- Can I see a ROI on this choice
- Can I make it happen at low cost
- Write down my findings, and make an informed conclusion
Manage FOBO
- Eliminate all options and pick the ultimate choice, by setting criteria to frame your decisions based on what is important to you
- Manage factors that will lead you astray
- Act with conviction on what you will do
Thank you for reading! Please like my Facebook page to get the latest updates.
Please click here for Referral deals.